Manifestation is not a magic genie pulled out of a lamp: it takes work. Below you will find the step-by-step guide to begin manifesting:

How can we manifest what we want?
Convince your brain to think that what you want is already happening. You can create an idea board that reflects what your dream house looks like, and then say how much you love it, how happy you are in this house. Create it.

The same goes for the kind of partner you would like to find. Write a list of the qualities you are looking for and introduce visual cues: Stick the list on the wall or use symbolic images. Mantras can also help you to raise your energy - if you are trying to become a more confident person, your mantra could be: I trust myself, I am beautiful.

The times when manifestation is most effective vary according to your zodiac sign. New Moons are always a powerful time for manifestation, with the most powerful time being the season corresponding to your sign. Also, your passage through Venus is an especially promising time for romantic connections: don't say no to any opportunity.

How to manifest love? How to attract the love of your life with your mind? There are a number of steps to manifesting love

First, work on yourself
Have you ever wondered what people mean when they talk about raising your frequency, or raising your vibration? The more you love yourself and demonstrate that love by investing time in your inner and outer care, the more likely you are to attract others on that same level of love. Like attracts like, and positive energy will manifest positive opportunities. If you are down here, you will attract people on the same level. Work on being the best version of yourself.

There are no failures, only learning
If you're too dependent on someone, and you can't be happy on your own, things are going to happen. You break up, or that person cheats on you, and that's not a coincidence, they are all challenges that the universe gives you to raise your energy and help you find your inner power.

It's important to see these incidents as an opportunity to mature, not as an endless spiral of suffering. We have this movie perspective that a relationship should last forever, but every relationship comes for the exact period of time you need to learn and grow in your evolution. It's not a failure. Ask yourself what you have learned. Don't use negative energy to start believing that your other relationships will be the same.

A total change of mindset
Sometimes, you tell yourself that you are having a bad day, and so everything keeps going just as bad, convincing yourself that you will never find a partner is equally counterproductive because your brain believes it. If you convince yourself that you are a failure in relationships, you will not manifest a single successful relationship.

Ask the universe from a place of abundance, not lack.
Apply this to anything you want to manifest. If it's not what you're looking for, don't be afraid to let it go. Make a list of what you are looking for in a partner, including the non-negotiables, to avoid wasting time with someone who is not right for you.

Know what you really want
Instead of writing 'I want someone tall and handsome', write down how you want that person to make you feel, or the things you will do together. Maybe someone who makes you feel really confident, she suggests, or a traveller you can explore the world with. You have to be honest with yourself, the best connections are on an energetic level. People get obsessed with a certain aspect and then wonder why it only attracts the bad ones.

For a deeper dive, your birth chart can offer insights to help you distinguish between what you want and what you need. Your fourth house speaks of family, the way you love and want to be loved. Your seventh house speaks to the way you view long-term relationships.

Find a hobby
When you do things you are passionate about, positive energy finds you wherever you are. Find a hobby that excites you (perhaps cooking or hiking) and build on it by taking classes or joining groups. It's also a great way to meet people in a more natural way and when you're at your best, experiencing new and fun things is when the best opportunities arise.